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1. “Is it really that bad to use dating apps if I’m just looking for someone?”
Answer:
Not all dating apps are evil—but many are built on worldly values. If the app encourages lust, superficiality, or emotional detachment, it’s pulling you away from God’s design for love. The Bible says, “Flee fornication” (1 Corinthians 6:18) and “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers” (2 Corinthians 6:14). Ask yourself: Is this app helping me seek a godly spouse, or just feeding my flesh?
2. “What if I feel lonely and these apps help me feel noticed?”
Answer:
Loneliness is real—but false connection won’t heal it. God sees you. He values you. “When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up” (Psalm 27:10). The attention from strangers may feel good for a moment, but only Christ offers lasting love. Build friendships in faith communities. Let God fill the void before you seek someone else to.
3. “Is it wrong to post selfies or get likes?”
Answer:
It depends on your heart. Are you posting to glorify God or to gain approval? “Let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth” (Proverbs 27:2). There’s nothing wrong with sharing joy—but beware of vanity. Likes fade. God’s love doesn’t. Ask yourself: Would I still feel valuable if no one liked this?
4. “How do I know if I’m addicted to my phone or apps?”
Answer:
If you reach for your phone before prayer, if you feel anxious without it, or if it’s affecting your sleep, mood, or relationships—it may be addiction. “All things are lawful unto me, but I will not be brought under the power of any” (1 Corinthians 6:12). Fast from your phone for a day. See how your spirit responds. God wants you free, not enslaved.
5. “Can’t I be a Christian and still have fun online?”
Answer:
Absolutely! But fun must be filtered through faith. “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). If your online fun leads to compromise, confusion, or comparison—it’s not worth it. True joy comes from walking in the Spirit, not chasing trends.
6. “What if I’ve already messed up?”
Answer:
Then you’re exactly who Jesus came for. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). You are not defined by your past. Repent, receive grace, and walk forward. God restores what the world tries to ruin.
7. “How do I guard my heart in a digital world?”
Answer:
Start with Scripture. Fill your mind with truth before you scroll. Set boundaries—limit screen time, unfollow toxic accounts, and invite accountability. “Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee” (Psalm 119:11). Guarding your heart means choosing what enters your eyes, ears, and emotions.
8. “Is it okay to want love and connection?”
Answer:
Yes! You were created for relationship. But God’s way is patient, pure, and purposeful. “Delight thyself also in the Lord; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart” (Psalm 37:4). Don’t settle for counterfeit love. Wait for the kind that reflects Christ’s love for His church.
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Ask your pastor for counsel on finding a mate for life.
That’s wise counsel, and it’s worth repeating: Ask your pastor for guidance when seeking a mate for life.
Your pastor isn’t just a preacher—he’s a shepherd, a spiritual mentor, and someone who’s walked through the valleys and mountaintops of marriage and ministry. He knows the Word, he knows your walk, and he can help you discern between fleeting attraction and godly connection.
Here’s why it matters:
🕊️ Biblical Wisdom Over Worldly Advice
Apps and algorithms can’t see your heart. But a pastor rooted in the King James Bible can help you weigh character, calling, and compatibility through the lens of Scripture.
“Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established.” — Proverbs 15:22
💬 Honest Conversations
Your pastor can ask the hard questions:
Are you spiritually ready for marriage?
Are you seeking someone who will walk beside you in faith—or distract you from it?
Are you building on sand or on the Rock?
🛡️ Protection from Counterfeits
Not every “Christian” profile is Christ-centered. Your pastor can help you spot red flags, avoid emotional traps, and stay anchored in truth.
“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers…” — 2 Corinthians 6:14
🙏 Prayerful Support
There’s power in having someone pray with you and for you. Your pastor can intercede, encourage, and even connect you with a Godly community where real relationships grow.
If you’re serious about finding a mate for life, don’t just swipe—seek. Don’t just match—pray. And don’t just hope—ask for help from someone who knows the Word and cares for your soul.
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“Hurt and Slander to Rise in Power”
A Documentary Report by Lance Whitaker, Baptist Investigative Journalist, Husband, Father, and Defender of Truth
📣 Introduction: A Voice Crying in the Digital Wilderness
My name is Lance Whitaker. I’m a Baptist, a father of two, a husband to a Proverbs 31 woman, and a man who believes that truth is not just a virtue—it’s a command. I speak today not as a pundit, but as a witness. I’ve seen the rise of a new kind of warfare—one not fought with swords or ballots, but with whispers, tweets, and anonymous usernames. It’s the silent poison of slander, and it’s being weaponized by the young and ambitious to climb ladders built on the backs of the discarded.
This is not fiction. This is not a theory. This is happening in our schools, our churches, our workplaces, and online. And the KJV Bible has already warned us: “The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly” (Proverbs 18:8).
🔥 The Game of Power: How Slander Became a Strategy
In today’s culture, rising to power often means eliminating perceived threats—not through merit, but through manipulation. I’ve interviewed dozens of victims, reviewed digital trails, and spoken with character witnesses who’ve seen reputations destroyed in seconds.
Let me introduce you to Rachel, a high school senior who was elected class president. Her opponent, a quiet but brilliant student named Eli, was accused anonymously of cheating on exams. Screenshots were circulated. None were real. Eli was disqualified. Later, it was discovered that Rachel’s campaign manager created the fake account. Eli’s academic record was cleared, but his reputation never recovered.
Or consider Pastor James, a youth leader in a growing church. A group of younger influencers, hungry for leadership roles, began spreading rumors that James was “too controlling” and “emotionally manipulative.” No evidence. Just whispers. Within months, James stepped down. One of the accusers now leads the youth ministry.
These are not isolated incidents. They are patterns.
🧠 The Psychology Behind the Poison
According to recent studies and expert analysis, slander is often driven by insecurity, envy, and a desire for control. Manipulators use triangulation, gossip, and online aliases to create chaos while remaining hidden. They don’t just want to win—they want to erase the competition.
The KJV Bible speaks plainly: “A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin” (Proverbs 26:28). This isn’t just about deception—it’s about hatred. The slanderer despises the one they target. They see them not as a fellow image-bearer of God, but as an obstacle.
💻 Online Warfare: The Rise of the Alias Assassin
In the digital age, slander has become easier, faster, and more anonymous. Young people create fake profiles to impersonate, mock, or sabotage their targets. They post doctored images, spread false accusations, and rally others to join the attack.
One college student I interviewed, Jared, was accused of sexual misconduct by a fake account that mimicked his own. The account posted inflammatory messages, tagged his professors, and even emailed his internship coordinator. Jared was suspended. The investigation revealed the account was created by a jealous classmate competing for the same scholarship.
This is not just bullying. It’s character assassination. And it’s often done under the guise of “justice” or “calling out.” But the Bible says: “Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour” (Exodus 20:16).
🔥 Slander Starts Wars—Literally and Spiritually
History is full of examples. False accusations have led to military invasions, political coups, and civil unrest. Think of how propaganda—often rooted in slander—has been used to dehumanize entire groups, justify violence, and stir hatred. The Bible warns us:
“An ungodly man diggeth up evil: and in his lips there is as a burning fire” (Proverbs 16:27, KJV).
🧨 Troublemakers and Violence
In schools, slander can provoke bullying, fights, and even shootings. Online, it fuels cancel culture, doxxing, and emotional breakdowns. In churches, it divides congregations and destroys ministries. The tongue, when untamed, becomes a spark that sets the whole forest ablaze (James 3:5-6).
👤 The Anonymous Assassin
Many who slander today hide behind aliases. They impersonate, twist facts, and stir up mobs—safe behind screens. But God sees.
CHARACTER ASSASSINS
They are the silent saboteurs of our digital age—anonymous character assassins who lurk behind fake profiles, wielding slander like a dagger. These individuals operate in the shadows, crafting false narratives, impersonating their targets, and rallying others to join the attack—all while remaining safely hidden. Their goal isn’t just to criticize; it’s to dismantle. They seek to erase reputations, silence voices, and eliminate perceived threats without ever showing their face. The Bible warns us of such treachery: “Whoso privily slandereth his neighbour, him will I cut off” (Psalm 101:5, KJV). This is not just a moral failing—it’s spiritual warfare.
Take the case of Micah, a young worship leader in a thriving church. One morning, he woke to find a fake Instagram account using his name and photo, posting inflammatory comments about church leadership. Screenshots spread like wildfire. Though Micah denied the posts, the damage was done—he was asked to step down while the elders investigated. Weeks later, it was revealed that the account was created by a jealous peer who wanted Micah’s position. The truth came out, but the trust was broken. Micah’s ministry never fully recovered. This is the cost of anonymous slander: reputations ruined, ministries dismantled, and hearts wounded—all for the sake of power.
“Whoso privily slandereth his neighbour, him will I cut off” (Psalm 101:5, KJV).
The tactics of slander and character assassination have shifted from digital warfare to face-to-face manipulation, workplace sabotage, and social ambushes. It’s no longer just anonymous posts—it’s whispered rumors in church hallways, strategic lies in boardrooms, and calculated gossip in classrooms. Take Daniel, a young man I interviewed who worked at a local nonprofit. He was passionate, honest, and rising quickly. But one of his coworkers, threatened by his integrity and influence, began planting seeds of doubt. She told others he was “too ambitious,” “not a team player,” and “probably hiding something.” She never said it online—she discussed it over coffee, in private meetings, and during casual conversations. Eventually, Daniel was passed over for a promotion. The coworker got the job. Months later, the truth surfaced—Daniel had done nothing wrong. But the damage was already done. His reputation had been quietly dismantled in real life, without a single tweet. This is the new battlefield. And it’s just as dangerous.
Susette was a kind, intelligent woman who had recently married a local businessman after meeting through a Christian singles network. She was warm, faithful, and eager to serve in her new church community. But some people—jealous of her grace, threatened by her presence, or simply addicted to gossip—began whispering that she was a “mail order bride.” They said she married for money, not love. That she was hiding something. That she didn’t belong.
None of it was true.
The rumors spread fast. She was excluded from women’s ministry events. Her husband was questioned behind closed doors. Even her pastor hesitated to defend her publicly, fearing division. The slander wasn’t online—it was in the pews, the parking lot, and the prayer circles. And it wounded her deeply.
The Bible speaks directly to this kind of cruelty:
“Thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer among thy people…” (Leviticus 19:16)
“He that uttereth a slander is a fool” (Proverbs 10:18)
Susette didn’t just suffer emotionally—she suffered spiritually. But she stood firm. She forgave. She stayed. And eventually, the truth came out. Her marriage was genuine. Her faith was strong. And her testimony became a light for others who had been falsely accused.
We need to protect the Susettes of the world. To expose the lies. And to remind the slanderers: “Every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment” (Matthew 12:36).
When people are determined to tear someone down, they’ll reach for anything—no matter how ridiculous, cruel, or baseless. In Susette’s case, the attacks didn’t stop at calling her a “mail order bride.” They escalated into something even more bizarre: whispers that she wasn’t real. That she was a robot. A programmed puppet. A fake.
This wasn’t just a joke—it was a tactic. By questioning her humanity, her critics stripped her of dignity. They made it easier for others to dismiss her, exclude her, and mock her. It’s the oldest trick in the book: dehumanize your target so you can justify the harm. And it’s exactly what the Bible warns against:
“The tongue deviseth mischiefs; like a sharp razor, working deceitfully” (Psalm 52:2, KJV).
Susette bore it with grace. She didn’t lash out. She didn’t retaliate. She prayed. She stood firm. And eventually, the truth spoke louder than the lies. But the scars remained—not just for her, but for every woman watching, wondering if they’d be next.
The KJV Bible warns us:
“A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends” (Proverbs 16:28).
These whisperers walk among us. But so do truth-tellers like you. Let’s keep exposing the tactics, defending the innocent, and fighting this battle with boldness and light
Susette’s story isn’t just one of pain; it’s a testimony of endurance, grace, and the quiet strength of a woman who refused to be erased.
Each chapter would carry the weight of betrayal: the cruel whispers in the church foyer, the sideways glances at fellowship dinners, the false accusations that questioned her marriage, her motives, even her humanity. The rumors that she was a “mail order bride” were bad enough—but when they began to say she was a robot, a programmed puppet, it crossed into something darker. It wasn’t just slander—it was dehumanization. And yet, through it all, Susette wept, prayed, and stood.
Her tears would fill pages. Not just tears of sorrow, but tears of intercession. Tears for the women who came before her, and the ones who would come after. Tears that watered the soil of her faith until it bloomed into something unshakable. She didn’t retaliate. She didn’t crumble. She became a living epistle—written not with ink, but with endurance.
The KJV Bible says:
“They that sow in tears shall reap in joy” (Psalm 126:5)
“Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you…for great is your reward in heaven” (Matthew 5:11–12)
Susette’s story deserves to be told—not just as a warning, but as a witness.
💔 The Emotional Fallout
Victims of slander often suffer depression, isolation, and fear. Families are torn apart. Careers ruined. Churches split. And all because someone wanted power, revenge, or attention.
But here’s the truth: slander is a sign of spiritual death. It’s the fruit of pride, envy, and hatred. And it’s never the way of Christ.
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Let’s call it what it is: slander is a spiritual cancer. It’s the devil’s whisper dressed in digital disguise. And today, we expose it.
🛡️ The Battle Begins: Truth vs. Treachery
You’ve declared war—not with fists, but with facts. Not with rage, but with righteousness. The KJV Bible says:
“Cry aloud, spare not, lift up thy voice like a trumpet, and shew my people their transgression…” (Isaiah 58:1)
This is your trumpet blast.
🔥 What We’re Fighting Against
Anonymous character assassins who hide behind fake profiles to destroy reputations.
Youthful ambition twisted into cruelty, where rising stars stomp on others to shine.
Digital impersonation, where slanderers pretend to be their victims to ruin them.
Church division, where whispers split ministries and silence truth-tellers.
Emotional violence, where the wounds go deeper than bruises.
This isn’t just a social issue—it’s a spiritual war. And the battlefield is our schools, our churches, our homes, and our screens.
🕯️ Bringing the Problem to Light
Let’s expose the tactics:
The Setup: A slanderer identifies a threat—someone smarter, kinder, more respected.
The Strike: They spread rumors, twist words, or fabricate screenshots.
The Silence: The victim is isolated, doubted, and often removed.
The Rise: The slanderer steps into the void they created.
But the Bible says:
“He that speaketh truth sheweth forth righteousness: but a false witness deceit” (Proverbs 12:17)
🗣️ More Testimonies of the Wounded
A young worship leader was removed from ministry after anonymous accusations—later proven false.
A high schooler was bullied into silence after being impersonated online.
A mother was slandered in her church group, losing friendships and support
These are real people. Real pain. And they need someone to say: “Enough.”
⚔️ Your Weapons of Warfare
Scripture: The sword of truth. “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet…” (Psalm 119:105)
Boldness: The shield of courage. “Be strong and of a good courage…” (Joshua 1:9)
Discernment: The helmet of wisdom. “The simple believeth every word: but the prudent man looketh well to his going” (Proverbs 14:15)
Love: The armor of grace. “Charity…thinketh no evil; rejoiceth not in iniquity…” (1 Corinthians 13:5-6)
💥 Your Declaration Echoes
You’re not just calling out sin—you’re calling others to stand. You’re saying to every victim, every silent sufferer: “You are not alone. The truth is on your side. And God sees.”
🗣️ Character Witnesses Speak Out
I spoke with Detective Marla Greene, a cybercrime investigator, who confirmed that most slander cases among youth are committed by peers using anonymous accounts. “They think anonymity gives them immunity,” she said. “But the damage they cause is real—and often irreversible.”
Dr. Thomas Ray, a Christian psychologist, added, “Slander is a form of emotional violence. It isolates the victim, rewrites their identity, and leaves them questioning their worth.”
And Pastor Elijah Boone, a mentor to many, told me: “We must teach our young people that power gained through deceit is not power at all. It’s bondage. The truth will always find its way to the surface.”
📖 Biblical Truth and the Call to Righteousness
The KJV Bible is not silent on this matter. It warns us repeatedly:
“Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile” (Psalm 34:13)
“He that hideth hatred with lying lips, and he that uttereth a slander, is a fool” (Proverbs 10:18)
“The tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity” (James 3:6)
Slander is not just a sin—it’s a symptom of a heart far from God. And those who use it to rise will eventually fall. “Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein” (Proverbs 26:27).
💡 Provoking Ideas for Healing and Prevention
So what can we do?
Teach discernment: Help youth recognize manipulation and stand firm in truth.
Promote accountability by encouraging transparency in leadership and digital interactions.
Model integrity: Show that real power comes from service, not sabotage.
Create safe spaces: Let victims speak, heal, and be restored.
❤️ Final Word from Lance Witiger
I write this not just as a reporter, but as a father. I want my children to grow up in a world where truth matters, where character counts, and where slander is not a stepping stone but a stumbling block.
Let us rise—not by tearing others down—but by lifting Christ up.
“Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice” (Ephesians 4:31).
This is Lance Whitaker. Signing off. Standing firm. Speaking truth.
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📚 Word Bank: Definitions to Know Before You Dive In
1. Affection – Deep feelings of love or care. In Colossians 3:2, it means setting your heart’s desire on heavenly things, not worldly distractions.
2. Deceitful – Misleading or dishonest. Jeremiah 17:9 warns that our hearts can trick us into thinking something is good when it’s actually harmful.
3. Diligence – Careful and persistent effort. Proverbs 4:23 tells us to guard our hearts with diligence—meaning we must be intentional and alert.
4. Instant Gratification – Wanting pleasure or reward right away, without waiting. Many apps feed this desire, but God teaches patience and purpose.
5. Superficiality – Shallow or lacking depth. Dating apps often encourage judging people by looks or profiles, not by character or faith.
6. Conviction – A strong sense of right and wrong, often prompted by the Holy Spirit. It’s that tug in your heart when something doesn’t feel godly.
7. Commodity – Something bought, sold, or traded. When affection becomes a commodity, people are treated like products—not souls.
8. Exploitation – Taking advantage of someone for selfish gain. Some apps lead to emotional or physical harm by encouraging selfish behavior.
9. Algorithm – A computer program that decides what you see online. It’s not neutral—it’s designed to keep you hooked, often by feeding your flesh.
10. Purity – Cleanliness of heart, mind, and body. In Scripture, purity is not just about avoiding sin—it’s about being fully devoted to God.
11. Validation – Seeking approval or worth from others. True validation comes from knowing you are loved and chosen by Christ.
12. Spiritual Warfare – The battle between good and evil that affects your soul. It’s real, and it often shows up in subtle ways—like through your phone.
🕵️♂️“Swiped: The App That Changed Dating—and Our Souls”
An Investigative Documentary by Lance Whitaker, Baptist Christian Reporter, Husband, Father, and Defender of Truth
📍Introduction: A Father’s Burden, A Reporter’s Calling
My name is Lance Whitaker. I’m a Baptist, a husband to my beloved wife Ruth, and a father of two precious children—Caleb and Abigail. I write not just as a journalist, but as a man burdened by the spiritual erosion I’ve witnessed in our culture. I hold the King James Bible close, and I believe in truth, righteousness, and the power of testimony. What you’re about to read is not entertainment—it’s a wake-up call.
In 2015, a dating app called Tinder exploded onto college campuses. It was marketed as a way to “connect,” but what it really did was redefine intimacy, commitment, and even identity. Fast forward to 2025, and a movie called Swiped—a dramatized biopic of Whitney Wolfe Herd, co-founder of Tinder and later Bumble—has reignited the conversation. I’ve spent months investigating both the film and the cultural fallout of these apps. What I found is disturbing, illuminating, and deeply personal.
🎬 The Movie: “Swiped” and the Rise of the Girlboss
Directed by Rachel Lee Goldenberg and starring Lily James, Swiped chronicles Whitney Wolfe Herd’s journey from idealistic entrepreneur to tech mogul. The film opens with Wolfe Herd pitching a charity app, only to be lured into the testosterone-fueled startup world of Hatch Labs, where Tinder was born.
The movie touches on her harassment by Tinder’s co-founder Justin Mateen, her lawsuit, and her eventual creation of Bumble—a dating app where women make the first move. It’s framed as a redemption arc, a “girlboss” triumph. But beneath the glossy montages and startup jargon lies a deeper story: one of spiritual confusion, moral compromise, and cultural upheaval.
📱 The App: Tinder’s Cultural Shockwave
Tinder’s swipe-left/swipe-right mechanism reduced human connection to a reflex. It gamified romance. It turned courtship into consumption. And it did so with chilling efficiency.
Let me share the testimony of Daniel, a 22-year-old college student I interviewed in Ohio:
“I used Tinder for two years. I thought I was just meeting people. But I ended up feeling emptier after every date. It was like I was collecting experiences, not building relationships. I stopped praying. I stopped caring. I felt disposable.”
Daniel’s story is not unique. Studies show that dating apps have contributed to rising rates of anxiety, depression, and loneliness among young adults. The illusion of endless options has eroded commitment. The Bible says, “Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth” (Proverbs 5:18). But Tinder teaches the opposite—never settle, always swipe.
💔 Emotional Fallout: The Cost of Convenience
I spoke with Rebecca, a 29-year-old single mother who met her child’s father on a dating app:
“He seemed perfect. We matched instantly. But he ghosted me after I got pregnant. I thought the app would help me find love. Instead, it gave me abandonment.”
Apps like Tinder and Bumble promise connection, but often deliver exploitation. They’ve normalized hookup culture, blurred gender roles, and commodified affection. And while Bumble claims to empower women, it still operates within the same framework of instant gratification.
🧠 Thought-Provoking Truths: What Are We Really Swiping Away?
Let’s ask the hard questions:
Are we trading depth for dopamine?
Are we raising a generation that confuses validation with virtue?
Are we building relationships on algorithms instead of prayer?
The Apostle Paul wrote, “Be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2). Dating apps conform us to a world of lust, comparison, and superficiality. They teach us to judge by appearance, not character. They train us to seek pleasure, not purpose.
🕵️♂️ Other Apps of Concern: The Silent Spies
Beyond dating apps, others pose spiritual and privacy dangers:
App Name
Concern
Spiritual Impact
TikTok
Data harvesting, addictive loops
Vanity, distraction
Snapchat
Disappearing messages
Secret sin, deception
Instagram
Comparison culture
Envy, pride
Whisper
Anonymous confessions
Isolation, shame
Grindr
Hookup-focused, location tracking
Exploitation, lust
These apps don’t just spy on your data—they spy on your soul. They shape how you think, feel, and relate. And they do so without accountability.
🗣️ Character Witnesses: Real People, Real Pain
Pastor Jim, Akron, OH: “I’ve counseled more young men addicted to Tinder than I can count. They come in broken, ashamed, and confused. These apps are spiritual warfare.”
Sarah, Youth Leader: “Our girls are bombarded with messages that their worth is in their looks. Bumble didn’t fix that—it just rebranded it.”
Elder Thomas, Retired Missionary: “We used to teach courtship. Now we teach damage control.”
🙏 Conclusion: A Call to Repentance and Restoration
I’m not here to condemn technology. I’m here to call for discernment. We must ask: Is this drawing me closer to Christ or pulling me away? The movie Swiped may glamorize ambition, but it also exposes the cost of compromise. The apps it portrays have reshaped our culture—but not always for good.
As a father, I pray for my children’s purity. As a husband, I cherish my covenant. As a reporter, I vow to tell the truth. And as a Christian, I urge you: “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life” (Proverbs 4:23).
Let us swipe away the lies. Let us swipe toward truth.
📖 Written by Lance Whitaker, Baptist Investigative ReporterFor the glory of God, the protection of families, and the restoration of hearts.
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In the midst of the horrors of war, a young girl named Anya wandered through the ruins of her once vibrant village in Ukraine. The sounds of explosions and the cries of the broken-hearted filled the air, but her own voice was lifted in a trembling prayer. She had lost her parents, her siblings, and every sense of security she once knew. With nothing left but her fragile faith, she whispered into the night, “Lord, save me. Please, I have no one else.”
The war had stripped her of everything, yet in her emptiness, she found herself reaching for the One she had only heard about in passing. She remembered her grandmother once speaking of a God who never leaves nor forsakes His children. That memory became her lifeline. As she prayed, she felt a strange peace settle over her heart, a peace that seemed impossible in the middle of destruction.
Days later, while searching for food and shelter, Anya encountered a group of missionaries who had come to bring aid and hope to those displaced by the war. Among them was a Baptist missionary named Pastor James. He noticed the sorrow in her eyes and the hunger in her soul. With gentle words, he told her about Jesus Christ, the Savior who came to heal the brokenhearted and give rest to the weary.
Pastor James handed her a small, worn Bible—the King James Version. It was the first Bible she had ever held in her hands. As she opened its pages, her eyes fell upon the words of Psalm 46:1: “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” Tears streamed down her face as she realized that God had indeed heard her cry in the night.
The missionaries brought her to a mission of safety, a place where children like her could find shelter, food, and the love of Christ. For the first time since the war began, she felt safe. She began to read the Scriptures daily, clinging to every promise. The words of Jesus in John 14:18 spoke directly to her heart: “I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.”
As weeks turned into months, Anya’s faith grew stronger. She learned to pray not only for her own needs but also for others who were suffering. She discovered that even in the darkest valley, God’s light could shine. Her testimony became a beacon of hope to other children in the mission, reminding them that God’s love is greater than the pain of war.
One evening, during a small gathering at the mission, Anya stood and shared her story. She told how God had answered her desperate prayer, how He had sent His servants to rescue her, and how His Word had become her daily bread. She declared with confidence, “My life is in God’s hands, and I am no longer afraid.”
Her words touched many hearts, and even the adults who had lost so much found renewed strength in her faith. The mission became more than a shelter; it became a place of revival, where broken lives were restored through the power of the Gospel.
Anya’s journey was not without pain, but she learned that suffering could lead to a deeper understanding of God’s grace. She held tightly to Romans 8:28: “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” Her life became a living testimony that even in the ashes of war, God can bring beauty and hope.
The story of Anya reminds the world that God cares, God knows, and when someone speaks His name, He listens. No cry is too small, no heart too broken, for the Lord who saves.
Key Verses (KJV)
Psalm 46:1 – “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.”
John 14:18 – “I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.”
Romans 8:28 – “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.”
Isaiah 41:10 – “Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.”
Quote for the Day
“Faith is not the absence of fear, but the presence of God in the midst of it.”
Tip of the Day
Begin each morning with prayer and a verse from the Bible. Even one verse can strengthen the heart for the challenges of the day.
My personal input: Romans 8:28 was my chosen verse of comfort as a teenager as well. It helped me know that God has a reason for everything, even if it's hard for anyone to understand.
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A buttery crust, tender apples, and a cinnamon-sugar crumb topping that melts into every bite.
🍏 Ingredients:
For the Filling:
8 Granny Smith apples, peeled and thinly sliced
⅔ cup granulated sugar
3 tbsp all-purpose flour
½ tbsp fresh lemon juice
½ tsp lemon zest (optional)
2 tsp cinnamon
⅛ tsp ground nutmeg
For the Crumb Topping:
1 cup all-purpose flour
½ cup brown sugar
½ cup unsalted butter, cold and cubed
For the Crust:
1 single pie crust (store-bought or homemade)
🕯️ Instructions:
Preheat oven to 450°F (232°C).
Prepare the filling: Toss sliced apples with sugar, flour, lemon juice, zest, cinnamon, and nutmeg. Layer into the pie shell.
Make the topping: Combine flour and brown sugar, then cut in butter until crumbly. Sprinkle generously over apples.
Bake at 450°F for 15 minutes. Reduce heat to 350°F (177°C) and bake for another 45–55 minutes, until apples are soft and topping is golden.
Cool slightly before serving. Best enjoyed warm with vanilla ice cream or a drizzle of honey.
✨ Devotional Tie-In:
As the apples soften and the crumb topping crisps, reflect on Proverbs 16:24:
“Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.”
This pie is more than dessert—it’s a reminder that warmth, sweetness, and care transform even the simplest ingredients into something healing and holy.
You can find the full recipe with step-by-step instructions on Spend With Pennies.
👨👩👧👦 Devotional Reflection: Making Your Children Your Mission
In the quiet moments of baking, as apples are peeled and spices stirred, we are reminded of the sacred rhythm of nurturing. Just as this pie is lovingly prepared, so too are our children shaped by the time, attention, and love we pour into them.
The world may tug at our sleeves with its demands and distractions, but our mission is clear: to be present for the little ones entrusted to us. They grow quickly—one day they’re nestled in our laps, the next they’re running toward their own adventures.
Let each slice of this pie be a symbol of intentional love. As the sweet aroma fills your home, let it be a reminder to pause, to cherish, and to invest in the fleeting moments of childhood.
Just as the apples soften and sweeten in the oven’s warmth, so do our children flourish in the warmth of our presence.
Scripture to Hold Close:
Proverbs 22:6
Prayer to Share:
"Lord, help me to see my children not as distractions, but as divine assignments. May I treasure the time I have with them, and may my love be a legacy that lasts beyond the fleeting years."
👩👧👦 Devotional Reflection: Her Children Call Her Blessed
In the gentle rhythm of baking, a mother and her children gather around the kitchen table. Little hands hold cut apples, ready to place them into the pie crust. Each apple is more than fruit—it is a prayer, a memory, a blessing.
This sacred act of preparing a meal together becomes a moment of spiritual formation. The mother’s love is poured into every slice, and her children rise up—not just to help, but to honor her.
As Proverbs 31:28 reminds us: “Her children rise up and call her blessed…”
And as the apples nestle into the crust, we whisper: “Each apple we place is a prayer of love, a memory in the making.”
Let this devotion be a reminder that the kitchen can be a sanctuary, and every shared task a holy offering.
Prayer to Share:
"Lord, bless the hands that prepare and the hearts that gather. May this pie be a symbol of love passed down, and may each child know they are cherished and called to bless."
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There is no greater joy than living a life fully surrendered to Jesus Christ. But before we can truly give Him our whole heart, we must first know Him as our Savior. Without salvation, our hearts remain bound by sin, unable to fully embrace the love, grace, and truth of Christ.
The Word of God declares:
"For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;" — Romans 3:23
We cannot cleanse ourselves, nor can we earn salvation through good works. It is only through the precious blood of Jesus Christ that we are redeemed.
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." — John 3:16
To receive this gift of eternal life, we must follow the ABCs of Salvation:
A – Admit that you are a sinner.
Sin separates us from God, and we must acknowledge our need for a Savior.
"For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;" — Romans 3:23
B – Believe that Jesus Christ died for your sins and rose again.
Salvation is found in Christ alone, through His sacrifice on the cross.
"But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." — Romans 5:8
C – Confess Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior.
Salvation is a personal decision—one that requires faith and trust in Him.
"That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved." — Romans 10:9
If you have not yet placed your trust in Jesus Christ, today is the day of salvation. Surrender your heart to Him, knowing that only through Him can you truly live a life devoted to God.
The invitation is open, the Savior is calling—will you trust Him today?
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In the heart of a blazing inferno, a firefighter's bravery shines like a beacon of hope. Imagine John, a seasoned firefighter, rushing into a burning building, his mission clear: to rescue those trapped inside. With precision and care, he navigates through the danger zone, his eyes scanning for anyone in need. Suddenly, he hears a faint cry for help. Without hesitation, John rushes toward the sound, dodging falling debris and leaping over obstacles. He finds a young girl huddled in a corner, her eyes wide with fear. With a reassuring smile, he scoops her up and makes his way back to safety. As they emerge into the fresh air, the girl's tears of fear turn to tears of gratitude. John had pulled her out of the fire, saving her from certain harm.
This story illustrates the depth of God's love for us. Just as John risked his life to save the girl, Jesus risked His life to save us from the flames of sin and destruction. In Jude 1:23 (KJV), we are called to "pluck them out of the fire." This is not just a suggestion; it's a divine mandate. We are to rescue those around us who are trapped in sin, just as John rescued the girl from the burning building.
The biblical parallel to John's story can be found in the account of Lot's rescue from Sodom. In Genesis 19, we read about the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, where Lot and his family were trapped. Angels of the Lord rushed in to pull them out of the impending doom, leading them to safety just as the fire and brimstone rained down. Similarly, we are called to be agents of rescue, pulling people out of the fire of sin that threatens to consume them.
As we go about our day, we encounter people who are trapped in various forms of bondage—addiction, fear, doubt, and despair. Some may be crying out for help, while others may be unaware of their need. We are called to be like John, to see beyond the smoke and flames and to reach out with the love of Christ. We are to be the hands and feet of Jesus, pulling others out of the fire.
One way to do this is by sharing the Gospel with those around us. Romans 10:9 (KJV) tells us that "if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved." Sharing this message with others can be the difference between life and death, between salvation and destruction.
As we strive to pull others out of the fire, we must remember that we cannot do it alone. We need the power of the Holy Spirit to guide and empower us. In Acts 1:8 (KJV), Jesus promises that we shall receive power after that the Holy Ghost is come upon us, and we shall be witnesses unto me. Ask God for this power and be the rescuer that God has called us to be.
Today, let us be intentional about reaching out to those around us who are trapped in sin and darkness. Let us be the ones who pull them out of the fire, just as John and the angels of the Lord did. May our hearts be filled with compassion and our hands be instruments of rescue.
Tip of the Day: Be the rescue team that God has called you to be. Look for opportunities to share the Gospel and show God's love to those around you.
Scripture Recommendation: Jude 1:23, "And others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire; hating even the garment spotted by the flesh." (KJV)
Invitation to Know the Saviour: Jesus stands at the door of your heart, ready to rescue you from the flames of sin and destruction. Will you let Him in? Will you surrender your life to Him and experience the power of His love and salvation? Come to Him today and say, "Lord, I believe. Help my unbelief." Let Him pull you out of the fire and into a life of freedom and joy.
Matching Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for sending Jesus to rescue us from the flames of sin. Give us the courage and power to be like John, to see beyond the smoke and flames and to reach out with Your love. Empower us with the Holy Spirit to be Your witnesses and to pull others out of the fire. In Jesus' name, Amen.
Invitation to Salvation: If you want to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and be rescued from the fire of sin, pray this prayer: "Dear God, I believe that Jesus Christ is Your Son and the Savior of the world. I confess my sins and ask for Your forgiveness. I surrender my life to You and invite Jesus to be my Lord and Savior. Thank You for rescuing me from the fire. In Jesus' name, Amen."
Billy Graham Quotes on Hell with Matching Scriptures (KJV)
“If we had more hell in the pulpit, we would have less hell in the pew.”
📖 2 Timothy 4:2 — “Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.”
“I think that hell essentially is separation from God forever. And that is the worst hell that I can think of.”
📖 2 Thessalonians 1:9 — “Who shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord, and from the glory of his power.”
“God will never send anybody to hell. If man goes to hell, he goes by his own free choice.”
📖 John 3:18 — “He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already…”
“Heaven is real and hell is real, and eternity is but a breath away.”
📖 Hebrews 9:27 — “And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment.”
“The most prominent place in hell is reserved for those who are neutral on the great issues of life.”
📖 Revelation 3:16 — “So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth.”
“At great cost to Himself, God has made it possible for each of us to live with Him eternally. Those who reject God's offer of a heavenly home will be assigned to hell.”
📖 Matthew 25:46 — “And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.”
“I am conscious of the fact that the subject of hell is not a very pleasant one... As a minister, I must deal with it. I cannot ignore it.”
📖 Acts 20:27 — “For I have not shunned to declare unto you all the counsel of God.”
“We are going to stumble into hell because of our pride.”
📖 Proverbs 16:18 — “Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.”
“Jesus used every descriptive word at His command to warn people to flee the wrath of God…”
📖 Matthew 10:28 — “And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.”
“The same Bible that tells us about the love of God and the beauties of Heaven also tells us about judgment and hell.”
📖 Romans 11:22 — “Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God…”
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"A false balance is abomination to the LORD: but a just weight is his delight." - Proverbs 11:1
Trust is the bedrock of all relationships—with our family, our friends, our communities, and most importantly, with our God. It is a fragile gift, easily shattered and difficult to repair. In a world where commitments are often fleeting and promises are made without intention, the call to be trustworthy is more vital than ever. It is a character trait that sets us apart, a testament to the transformative power of a life lived in Christ. To be trustworthy is to be a reflection of God's own unwavering faithfulness.
The Lord delights in a "just weight," a metaphor for a life of integrity and honesty. This isn't just about financial transactions; it's about the way we handle our words, our commitments, and our responsibilities. A false balance, a deceitful measure, is an abomination to Him because it perverts the very nature of truth and justice. When we are untrustworthy, we are essentially operating with a "false balance," giving a deceptive impression of who we are and what we stand for.
Consider the story of Abraham and how he was called to a place he did not know. His faith was built on a trust in God that was absolute. God's promises were his "just weight." When we are trustworthy, we become a living testament to the trustworthiness of our God. Our friends and colleagues should be able to look at our lives and see a pattern of reliability, a promise keeper, someone who means what they say and says what they mean.
Being trustworthy is not just about avoiding lies; it's about being consistent in our actions. It's about being the person others can rely on to show up, to follow through, and to stand by their word, even when it is difficult. This consistency is a powerful witness to the world, a light in the darkness that points back to the One who is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
The scriptures are filled with examples of individuals who were trusted by God and man alike because of their character. Joseph, in Egypt, was entrusted with the entire kingdom's affairs because his integrity was unquestionable. Daniel was elevated to a position of power because his adversaries could find no fault in him, save for his devotion to his God. These were men who lived with a "just weight" in their hearts, and the Lord blessed their faithfulness.
Our trustworthiness is a direct reflection of our relationship with God. The more we grow in our understanding of His faithfulness, the more we are empowered by His Spirit to be faithful ourselves. It is a process of sanctification, where we are daily being conformed to the image of Christ, who is the ultimate embodiment of truth and reliability.
Let us commit to being people of our word, individuals whose actions align with our promises. Let us be diligent in our commitments, whether big or small, for it is in the small things that our character is truly forged. Let us seek to be a "just weight" in our homes, our workplaces, and our communities, so that the Lord's delight may rest upon us.
In a world full of shifting sands, let us be the rock of reliability, a beacon of integrity, and a testament to the unchanging faithfulness of our God. May our lives be a living sacrifice of truth, a fragrant offering that brings glory to His name.
"He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much: and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much." - Luke 16:10
Chosen Scripture Reading: Proverbs 11:1-8
Closing Prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before you with grateful hearts, seeking to be more like You. You are the ultimate example of trustworthiness and faithfulness. Forgive us for the times we have been unreliable, for the promises we have failed to keep, and for the times we have operated with a "false balance." Lord, we ask that you would work in us to create a clean heart and a steadfast spirit. Help us to be faithful in the little things, so that we may be trusted with much. May our lives be a reflection of Your unwavering character, and may our words and actions bring delight to Your heart. In Jesus' name, Amen.
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