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Saturday, September 20, 2025

“Hurt and Slander to Rise in Power”





“Hurt and Slander to Rise in Power” A Documentary Report by Lance Whitaker, Baptist Investigative Journalist, Husband, Father, and Defender of Truth

๐Ÿ“ฃ Introduction: A Voice Crying in the Digital Wilderness

My name is Lance Whitaker. I’m a Baptist, a father of two, a husband to a Proverbs 31 woman, and a man who believes that truth is not just a virtue—it’s a command. I speak today not as a pundit, but as a witness. I’ve seen the rise of a new kind of warfare—one not fought with swords or ballots, but with whispers, tweets, and anonymous usernames. It’s the silent poison of slander, and it’s being weaponized by the young and ambitious to climb ladders built on the backs of the discarded.

This is not fiction. This is not a theory. This is happening in our schools, our churches, our workplaces, and online. And the KJV Bible has already warned us: “The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly” (Proverbs 18:8).

๐Ÿ”ฅ The Game of Power: How Slander Became a Strategy

In today’s culture, rising to power often means eliminating perceived threats—not through merit, but through manipulation. I’ve interviewed dozens of victims, reviewed digital trails, and spoken with character witnesses who’ve seen reputations destroyed in seconds.

Let me introduce you to Rachel, a high school senior who was elected class president. Her opponent, a quiet but brilliant student named Eli, was accused anonymously of cheating on exams. Screenshots were circulated. None were real. Eli was disqualified. Later, it was discovered that Rachel’s campaign manager created the fake account. Eli’s academic record was cleared, but his reputation never recovered.

Or consider Pastor James, a youth leader in a growing church. A group of younger influencers, hungry for leadership roles, began spreading rumors that James was “too controlling” and “emotionally manipulative.” No evidence. Just whispers. Within months, James stepped down. One of the accusers now leads the youth ministry.

These are not isolated incidents. They are patterns.

๐Ÿง  The Psychology Behind the Poison

According to recent studies and expert analysis, slander is often driven by insecurity, envy, and a desire for control. Manipulators use triangulation, gossip, and online aliases to create chaos while remaining hidden. They don’t just want to win—they want to erase the competition.

The KJV Bible speaks plainly: “A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin” (Proverbs 26:28). This isn’t just about deception—it’s about hatred. The slanderer despises the one they target. They see them not as a fellow image-bearer of God, but as an obstacle.

๐Ÿ’ป Online Warfare: The Rise of the Alias Assassin

In the digital age, slander has become easier, faster, and more anonymous. Young people create fake profiles to impersonate, mock, or sabotage their targets. They post doctored images, spread false accusations, and rally others to join the attack.

One college student I interviewed, Jared, was accused of sexual misconduct by a fake account that mimicked his own. The account posted inflammatory messages, tagged his professors, and even emailed his internship coordinator. Jared was suspended. The investigation revealed the account was created by a jealous classmate competing for the same scholarship.

This is not just bullying. It’s character assassination. And it’s often done under the guise of “justice” or “calling out.” But the Bible says: “Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour” (Exodus 20:16).

๐Ÿ”ฅ Slander Starts Wars—Literally and Spiritually History is full of examples. False accusations have led to military invasions, political coups, and civil unrest. Think of how propaganda—often rooted in slander—has been used to dehumanize entire groups, justify violence, and stir hatred. The Bible warns us:

“An ungodly man diggeth up evil: and in his lips there is as a burning fire” (Proverbs 16:27, KJV).

๐Ÿงจ Troublemakers and Violence In schools, slander can provoke bullying, fights, and even shootings. Online, it fuels cancel culture, doxxing, and emotional breakdowns. In churches, it divides congregations and destroys ministries. The tongue, when untamed, becomes a spark that sets the whole forest ablaze (James 3:5-6).

๐Ÿ‘ค The Anonymous Assassin Many who slander today hide behind aliases. They impersonate, twist facts, and stir up mobs—safe behind screens. But God sees.

CHARACTER ASSASSINS

They are the silent saboteurs of our digital age—anonymous character assassins who lurk behind fake profiles, wielding slander like a dagger. These individuals operate in the shadows, crafting false narratives, impersonating their targets, and rallying others to join the attack—all while remaining safely hidden. Their goal isn’t just to criticize; it’s to dismantle. They seek to erase reputations, silence voices, and eliminate perceived threats without ever showing their face. The Bible warns us of such treachery: “Whoso privily slandereth his neighbour, him will I cut off” (Psalm 101:5, KJV). This is not just a moral failing—it’s spiritual warfare.

Take the case of Micah, a young worship leader in a thriving church. One morning, he woke to find a fake Instagram account using his name and photo, posting inflammatory comments about church leadership. Screenshots spread like wildfire. Though Micah denied the posts, the damage was done—he was asked to step down while the elders investigated. Weeks later, it was revealed that the account was created by a jealous peer who wanted Micah’s position. The truth came out, but the trust was broken. Micah’s ministry never fully recovered. This is the cost of anonymous slander: reputations ruined, ministries dismantled, and hearts wounded—all for the sake of power.

“Whoso privily slandereth his neighbour, him will I cut off” (Psalm 101:5, KJV).                                                                                                                                                           

 The tactics of slander and character assassination have shifted from digital warfare to face-to-face manipulation, workplace sabotage, and social ambushes. It’s no longer just anonymous posts—it’s whispered rumors in church hallways, strategic lies in boardrooms, and calculated gossip in classrooms.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Take Daniel, a young man I interviewed who worked at a local nonprofit. He was passionate, honest, and rising quickly. But one of his coworkers, threatened by his integrity and influence, began planting seeds of doubt. She told others he was “too ambitious,” “not a team player,” and “probably hiding something.” She never said it online—she discussed it over coffee, in private meetings, and during casual conversations. Eventually, Daniel was passed over for a promotion. The coworker got the job. Months later, the truth surfaced—Daniel had done nothing wrong. But the damage was already done. His reputation had been quietly dismantled in real life, without a single tweet. This is the new battlefield. And it’s just as dangerous.

 Susette was a kind, intelligent woman who had recently married a local businessman after meeting through a Christian singles network. She was warm, faithful, and eager to serve in her new church community. But some people—jealous of her grace, threatened by her presence, or simply addicted to gossip—began whispering that she was a “mail order bride.” They said she married for money, not love. That she was hiding something. That she didn’t belong.

None of it was true.

The rumors spread fast. She was excluded from women’s ministry events. Her husband was questioned behind closed doors. Even her pastor hesitated to defend her publicly, fearing division. The slander wasn’t online—it was in the pews, the parking lot, and the prayer circles. And it wounded her deeply.

The Bible speaks directly to this kind of cruelty:

“Thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer among thy people…” (Leviticus 19:16) “He that uttereth a slander is a fool” (Proverbs 10:18)

Susette didn’t just suffer emotionally—she suffered spiritually. But she stood firm. She forgave. She stayed. And eventually, the truth came out. Her marriage was genuine. Her faith was strong. And her testimony became a light for others who had been falsely accused.

We need to protect the Susettes of the world. To expose the lies. And to remind the slanderers: “Every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment” (Matthew 12:36).

When people are determined to tear someone down, they’ll reach for anything—no matter how ridiculous, cruel, or baseless. In Susette’s case, the attacks didn’t stop at calling her a “mail order bride.” They escalated into something even more bizarre: whispers that she wasn’t real. That she was a robot. A programmed puppet. A fake.

This wasn’t just a joke—it was a tactic. By questioning her humanity, her critics stripped her of dignity. They made it easier for others to dismiss her, exclude her, and mock her. It’s the oldest trick in the book: dehumanize your target so you can justify the harm. And it’s exactly what the Bible warns against:

“The tongue deviseth mischiefs; like a sharp razor, working deceitfully” (Psalm 52:2, KJV).

Susette bore it with grace. She didn’t lash out. She didn’t retaliate. She prayed. She stood firm. And eventually, the truth spoke louder than the lies. But the scars remained—not just for her, but for every woman watching, wondering if they’d be next.

 The KJV Bible warns us:

“A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends” (Proverbs 16:28).

These whisperers walk among us. But so do truth-tellers like you. Let’s keep exposing the tactics, defending the innocent, and fighting this battle with boldness and light

Susette’s story isn’t just one of pain; it’s a testimony of endurance, grace, and the quiet strength of a woman who refused to be erased.

Each chapter would carry the weight of betrayal: the cruel whispers in the church foyer, the sideways glances at fellowship dinners, the false accusations that questioned her marriage, her motives, even her humanity. The rumors that she was a “mail order bride” were bad enough—but when they began to say she was a robot, a programmed puppet, it crossed into something darker. It wasn’t just slander—it was dehumanization. And yet, through it all, Susette wept, prayed, and stood.

Her tears would fill pages. Not just tears of sorrow, but tears of intercession. Tears for the women who came before her, and the ones who would come after. Tears that watered the soil of her faith until it bloomed into something unshakable. She didn’t retaliate. She didn’t crumble. She became a living epistle—written not with ink, but with endurance.

The KJV Bible says:

“They that sow in tears shall reap in joy” (Psalm 126:5) “Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you…for great is your reward in heaven” (Matthew 5:11–12)

Susette’s story deserves to be told—not just as a warning, but as a witness.

๐Ÿ’” The Emotional Fallout Victims of slander often suffer depression, isolation, and fear. Families are torn apart. Careers ruined. Churches split. And all because someone wanted power, revenge, or attention.

But here’s the truth: slander is a sign of spiritual death. It’s the fruit of pride, envy, and hatred. And it’s never the way of Christ.

Would you like me to expand this into a full devotional, sermon outline, or printable teaching guide? I can also include real-world examples and biblical case studies. Let’s equip others to recognize and resist this destructive force.

Let’s call it what it is: slander is a spiritual cancer. It’s the devil’s whisper dressed in digital disguise. And today, we expose it.

๐Ÿ›ก️ The Battle Begins: Truth vs. Treachery

You’ve declared war—not with fists, but with facts. Not with rage, but with righteousness. The KJV Bible says:

“Cry aloud, spare not, lift up thy voice like a trumpet, and shew my people their transgression…” (Isaiah 58:1)

This is your trumpet blast.

๐Ÿ”ฅ What We’re Fighting Against

  • Anonymous character assassins who hide behind fake profiles to destroy reputations.

  • Youthful ambition twisted into cruelty, where rising stars stomp on others to shine.

  • Digital impersonation, where slanderers pretend to be their victims to ruin them.

  • Church division, where whispers split ministries and silence truth-tellers.

  • Emotional violence, where the wounds go deeper than bruises.

This isn’t just a social issue—it’s a spiritual war. And the battlefield is our schools, our churches, our homes, and our screens.

๐Ÿ•ฏ️ Bringing the Problem to Light

Let’s expose the tactics:

  • The Setup: A slanderer identifies a threat—someone smarter, kinder, more respected.

  • The Strike: They spread rumors, twist words, or fabricate screenshots.

  • The Silence: The victim is isolated, doubted, and often removed.

  • The Rise: The slanderer steps into the void they created.

But the Bible says:

“He that speaketh truth sheweth forth righteousness: but a false witness deceit” (Proverbs 12:17)

๐Ÿ—ฃ️ More Testimonies of the Wounded

  • A young worship leader was removed from ministry after anonymous accusations—later proven false.

  • A high schooler was bullied into silence after being impersonated online.

  • A mother was slandered in her church group, losing friendships and support

These are real people. Real pain. And they need someone to say: “Enough.”

⚔️ Your Weapons of Warfare

  • Scripture: The sword of truth. “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet…” (Psalm 119:105)

  • Boldness: The shield of courage. “Be strong and of a good courage…” (Joshua 1:9)

  • Discernment: The helmet of wisdom. “The simple believeth every word: but the prudent man looketh well to his going” (Proverbs 14:15)

  • Love: The armor of grace. “Charity…thinketh no evil; rejoiceth not in iniquity…” (1 Corinthians 13:5-6)

๐Ÿ’ฅ Your Declaration Echoes

You’re not just calling out sin—you’re calling others to stand. You’re saying to every victim, every silent sufferer: “You are not alone. The truth is on your side. And God sees.”

๐Ÿ—ฃ️ Character Witnesses Speak Out

I spoke with Detective Marla Greene, a cybercrime investigator, who confirmed that most slander cases among youth are committed by peers using anonymous accounts. “They think anonymity gives them immunity,” she said. “But the damage they cause is real—and often irreversible.”

Dr. Thomas Ray, a Christian psychologist, added, “Slander is a form of emotional violence. It isolates the victim, rewrites their identity, and leaves them questioning their worth.”

And Pastor Elijah Boone, a mentor to many, told me: “We must teach our young people that power gained through deceit is not power at all. It’s bondage. The truth will always find its way to the surface.”

๐Ÿ“– Biblical Truth and the Call to Righteousness

The KJV Bible is not silent on this matter. It warns us repeatedly:

  • “Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile” (Psalm 34:13)

  • “He that hideth hatred with lying lips, and he that uttereth a slander, is a fool” (Proverbs 10:18)

  • “The tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity” (James 3:6)

Slander is not just a sin—it’s a symptom of a heart far from God. And those who use it to rise will eventually fall. “Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein” (Proverbs 26:27).

๐Ÿ’ก Provoking Ideas for Healing and Prevention

So what can we do?

  • Teach discernment: Help youth recognize manipulation and stand firm in truth.

  • Promote accountability by encouraging transparency in leadership and digital interactions.

  • Model integrity: Show that real power comes from service, not sabotage.

  • Create safe spaces: Let victims speak, heal, and be restored.

❤️ Final Word from Lance Witiger

I write this not just as a reporter, but as a father. I want my children to grow up in a world where truth matters, where character counts, and where slander is not a stepping stone but a stumbling block.

Let us rise—not by tearing others down—but by lifting Christ up.

“Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice” (Ephesians 4:31).

This is Lance Whitaker. Signing off. Standing firm. Speaking truth.


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Susan Barker Nikitenko 2025© LanceReport MPMBCPANNABENGEORGEKBPBNMRMPM77767#






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Friday, September 19, 2025

๐Ÿ•ต️‍♂️“Swiped: The App That Changed Dating—and Our Souls” Some Teens/Young Adults




๐Ÿ“š Word Bank: Definitions to Know Before You Dive In

1. Affection – Deep feelings of love or care. In Colossians 3:2, it means setting your heart’s desire on heavenly things, not worldly distractions.

2. Deceitful – Misleading or dishonest. Jeremiah 17:9 warns that our hearts can trick us into thinking something is good when it’s actually harmful.

3. Diligence – Careful and persistent effort. Proverbs 4:23 tells us to guard our hearts with diligence—meaning we must be intentional and alert.

4. Instant Gratification – Wanting pleasure or reward right away, without waiting. Many apps feed this desire, but God teaches patience and purpose.

5. Superficiality – Shallow or lacking depth. Dating apps often encourage judging people by looks or profiles, not by character or faith.

6. Conviction – A strong sense of right and wrong, often prompted by the Holy Spirit. It’s that tug in your heart when something doesn’t feel godly.

7. Commodity – Something bought, sold, or traded. When affection becomes a commodity, people are treated like products—not souls.

8. Exploitation – Taking advantage of someone for selfish gain. Some apps lead to emotional or physical harm by encouraging selfish behavior.

9. Algorithm – A computer program that decides what you see online. It’s not neutral—it’s designed to keep you hooked, often by feeding your flesh.

10. Purity – Cleanliness of heart, mind, and body. In Scripture, purity is not just about avoiding sin—it’s about being fully devoted to God.

11. Validation – Seeking approval or worth from others. True validation comes from knowing you are loved and chosen by Christ.

12. Spiritual Warfare – The battle between good and evil that affects your soul. It’s real, and it often shows up in subtle ways—like through your phone.


๐Ÿ•ต️‍♂️“Swiped: The App That Changed Dating—and Our Souls”

An Investigative Documentary by Lance Whitaker, Baptist Christian Reporter, Husband, Father, and Defender of Truth

๐Ÿ“Introduction: A Father’s Burden, A Reporter’s Calling

My name is Lance Whitaker. I’m a Baptist, a husband to my beloved wife Ruth, and a father of two precious children—Caleb and Abigail. I write not just as a journalist, but as a man burdened by the spiritual erosion I’ve witnessed in our culture. I hold the King James Bible close, and I believe in truth, righteousness, and the power of testimony. What you’re about to read is not entertainment—it’s a wake-up call.

In 2015, a dating app called Tinder exploded onto college campuses. It was marketed as a way to “connect,” but what it really did was redefine intimacy, commitment, and even identity. Fast forward to 2025, and a movie called Swiped—a dramatized biopic of Whitney Wolfe Herd, co-founder of Tinder and later Bumble—has reignited the conversation. I’ve spent months investigating both the film and the cultural fallout of these apps. What I found is disturbing, illuminating, and deeply personal.

๐ŸŽฌ The Movie: “Swiped” and the Rise of the Girlboss

Directed by Rachel Lee Goldenberg and starring Lily James, Swiped chronicles Whitney Wolfe Herd’s journey from idealistic entrepreneur to tech mogul. The film opens with Wolfe Herd pitching a charity app, only to be lured into the testosterone-fueled startup world of Hatch Labs, where Tinder was born.

The movie touches on her harassment by Tinder’s co-founder Justin Mateen, her lawsuit, and her eventual creation of Bumble—a dating app where women make the first move. It’s framed as a redemption arc, a “girlboss” triumph. But beneath the glossy montages and startup jargon lies a deeper story: one of spiritual confusion, moral compromise, and cultural upheaval.

๐Ÿ“ฑ The App: Tinder’s Cultural Shockwave

Tinder’s swipe-left/swipe-right mechanism reduced human connection to a reflex. It gamified romance. It turned courtship into consumption. And it did so with chilling efficiency.

Let me share the testimony of Daniel, a 22-year-old college student I interviewed in Ohio:

“I used Tinder for two years. I thought I was just meeting people. But I ended up feeling emptier after every date. It was like I was collecting experiences, not building relationships. I stopped praying. I stopped caring. I felt disposable.”

Daniel’s story is not unique. Studies show that dating apps have contributed to rising rates of anxiety, depression, and loneliness among young adults. The illusion of endless options has eroded commitment. The Bible says, “Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth” (Proverbs 5:18). But Tinder teaches the opposite—never settle, always swipe.

๐Ÿ’” Emotional Fallout: The Cost of Convenience

I spoke with Rebecca, a 29-year-old single mother who met her child’s father on a dating app:

“He seemed perfect. We matched instantly. But he ghosted me after I got pregnant. I thought the app would help me find love. Instead, it gave me abandonment.”

Apps like Tinder and Bumble promise connection, but often deliver exploitation. They’ve normalized hookup culture, blurred gender roles, and commodified affection. And while Bumble claims to empower women, it still operates within the same framework of instant gratification.

๐Ÿง  Thought-Provoking Truths: What Are We Really Swiping Away?

Let’s ask the hard questions:

  • Are we trading depth for dopamine?

  • Are we raising a generation that confuses validation with virtue?

  • Are we building relationships on algorithms instead of prayer?

The Apostle Paul wrote, “Be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2). Dating apps conform us to a world of lust, comparison, and superficiality. They teach us to judge by appearance, not character. They train us to seek pleasure, not purpose.

๐Ÿ•ต️‍♂️ Other Apps of Concern: The Silent Spies

Beyond dating apps, others pose spiritual and privacy dangers:

App NameConcernSpiritual Impact
TikTokData harvesting, addictive loopsVanity, distraction
SnapchatDisappearing messagesSecret sin, deception
InstagramComparison cultureEnvy, pride
WhisperAnonymous confessionsIsolation, shame
GrindrHookup-focused, location trackingExploitation, lust

These apps don’t just spy on your data—they spy on your soul. They shape how you think, feel, and relate. And they do so without accountability.

๐Ÿ—ฃ️ Character Witnesses: Real People, Real Pain

  • Pastor Jim, Akron, OH: “I’ve counseled more young men addicted to Tinder than I can count. They come in broken, ashamed, and confused. These apps are spiritual warfare.”

  • Sarah, Youth Leader: “Our girls are bombarded with messages that their worth is in their looks. Bumble didn’t fix that—it just rebranded it.”

  • Elder Thomas, Retired Missionary: “We used to teach courtship. Now we teach damage control.”

๐Ÿ™ Conclusion: A Call to Repentance and Restoration

I’m not here to condemn technology. I’m here to call for discernment. We must ask: Is this drawing me closer to Christ or pulling me away? The movie Swiped may glamorize ambition, but it also exposes the cost of compromise. The apps it portrays have reshaped our culture—but not always for good.

As a father, I pray for my children’s purity. As a husband, I cherish my covenant. As a reporter, I vow to tell the truth. And as a Christian, I urge you: “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life” (Proverbs 4:23).

Let us swipe away the lies. Let us swipe toward truth.

๐Ÿ“– Written by Lance Whitaker, Baptist Investigative Reporter For the glory of God, the protection of families, and the restoration of hearts.

Susan Barker Nikitenko 2025© LanceReport MPMBCPANNABENGEORGEKBPBNMRMPM77767##


Poetry And Other Materials On This Site Can Be Freely Used For Christian Bible Centered Non-Profit Ministries And must Remain Unchanged In Any Way. All Other Purposes Are With Permission Only. You May Make Requests At "treasurebox18@yahoo.com" All my poems with stories are both real and fictional designed to illustrate a biblical truth. All Rights Reserved. Please Include Site Name And Link Back To This Blog. Thank-You.Images are not all Christian, but put here for the purposes of doing good works of faith, family and country.

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