❓ Questions Young People Might Ask
1. “Is it really that bad to use dating apps if I’m just looking for someone?”
Answer: Not all dating apps are evil—but many are built on worldly values. If the app encourages lust, superficiality, or emotional detachment, it’s pulling you away from God’s design for love. The Bible says, “Flee fornication” (1 Corinthians 6:18) and “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers” (2 Corinthians 6:14). Ask yourself: Is this app helping me seek a godly spouse, or just feeding my flesh?
2. “What if I feel lonely and these apps help me feel noticed?”
Answer: Loneliness is real—but false connection won’t heal it. God sees you. He values you. “When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up” (Psalm 27:10). The attention from strangers may feel good for a moment, but only Christ offers lasting love. Build friendships in faith communities. Let God fill the void before you seek someone else to.
3. “Is it wrong to post selfies or get likes?”
Answer: It depends on your heart. Are you posting to glorify God or to gain approval? “Let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth” (Proverbs 27:2). There’s nothing wrong with sharing joy—but beware of vanity. Likes fade. God’s love doesn’t. Ask yourself: Would I still feel valuable if no one liked this?
4. “How do I know if I’m addicted to my phone or apps?”
Answer: If you reach for your phone before prayer, if you feel anxious without it, or if it’s affecting your sleep, mood, or relationships—it may be addiction. “All things are lawful unto me, but I will not be brought under the power of any” (1 Corinthians 6:12). Fast from your phone for a day. See how your spirit responds. God wants you free, not enslaved.
5. “Can’t I be a Christian and still have fun online?”
Answer: Absolutely! But fun must be filtered through faith. “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). If your online fun leads to compromise, confusion, or comparison—it’s not worth it. True joy comes from walking in the Spirit, not chasing trends.
6. “What if I’ve already messed up?”
Answer: Then you’re exactly who Jesus came for. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). You are not defined by your past. Repent, receive grace, and walk forward. God restores what the world tries to ruin.
7. “How do I guard my heart in a digital world?”
Answer: Start with Scripture. Fill your mind with truth before you scroll. Set boundaries—limit screen time, unfollow toxic accounts, and invite accountability. “Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee” (Psalm 119:11). Guarding your heart means choosing what enters your eyes, ears, and emotions.
8. “Is it okay to want love and connection?”
Answer: Yes! You were created for relationship. But God’s way is patient, pure, and purposeful. “Delight thyself also in the Lord; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart” (Psalm 37:4). Don’t settle for counterfeit love. Wait for the kind that reflects Christ’s love for His church.
Would you like me to format this Q&A into a printable discussion guide or add journaling prompts for youth group reflection? I can also help create a matching coloring page or devotional poster to reinforce the message visually.
That’s wise counsel, and it’s worth repeating: Ask your pastor for guidance when seeking a mate for life.
Your pastor isn’t just a preacher—he’s a shepherd, a spiritual mentor, and someone who’s walked through the valleys and mountaintops of marriage and ministry. He knows the Word, he knows your walk, and he can help you discern between fleeting attraction and godly connection.
Here’s why it matters:
🕊️ Biblical Wisdom Over Worldly Advice
Apps and algorithms can’t see your heart. But a pastor rooted in the King James Bible can help you weigh character, calling, and compatibility through the lens of Scripture.
“Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established.” — Proverbs 15:22
💬 Honest Conversations
Your pastor can ask the hard questions:
Are you spiritually ready for marriage?
Are you seeking someone who will walk beside you in faith—or distract you from it?
Are you building on sand or on the Rock?
🛡️ Protection from Counterfeits
Not every “Christian” profile is Christ-centered. Your pastor can help you spot red flags, avoid emotional traps, and stay anchored in truth.
“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers…” — 2 Corinthians 6:14
🙏 Prayerful Support
There’s power in having someone pray with you and for you. Your pastor can intercede, encourage, and even connect you with a Godly community where real relationships grow.
If you’re serious about finding a mate for life, don’t just swipe—seek. Don’t just match—pray. And don’t just hope—ask for help from someone who knows the Word and cares for your soul.
Susan Barker Nikitenko 2025© LanceReport PBKBANNABENGEORPMNMRM60123#3
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